In 1998 I had an operation in my abdomen. And in 2004, a doctor saved my life from excruciating abdominal pain that he said was caused by overstress! And since I’m a firm believer in the strong bond between soul and body, I naively believed him. But later, I learned from the anesthetist that what almost killed me was an old rubber ring found in my abdomen. My near-death had nothing to do with overstress, but the good doctor did make use of his knowledge of the stressful life I lead at the time, to find a comprehendible explanation to my case. He didn’t tell me the truth about the first doctor’s misconduct, and what made it puzzling is that he didn’t know the doctor that operated in 1998.
Medical circles are full of stories about people who are suffering the consequences of medical errors. One of the most shocking is of an obstetrician who boasts among his colleagues that he always tells the expectant mothers two weeks before their due-date that the umbilical cord looks coiled around the baby’s neck. Why? So that the mother would be easily convinced of a c-section on her due date, out of fear for her baby’s life of course. And what’s in it for the doctor? Well, for one thing a c-section delivery triples the doctor’s fees. And second, it takes much less time to cut, fetch, then sew shut again, than it does to wait by the mother for hours of labor. And it’s obviously less tedious, since the time he has to spend by the soon-to-be mom is taken from his time at the clinic, where he could be cunning more moms into paying him what he thinks justifies his efforts.
It goes without saying that the source of this particular information refused to name the doctor for me, since she too is in the medical field. And when I asked her if she warns his patients against his ill-ways, she said “no”!
The irony of the “code of silence” in the medical circles is that it boils down to what medics believe to be “the ethics of the practice”. When simpletons like me think that medical ethics stem from upholding the human life as the most precious of gifts, doctors seemingly believe it unethical to squeal about the wrong doing of another that could impair or even take the lives of innocent people, regardless of their personal judgment about whether the wrong done was mere human error, an act of negligence, or premeditated misconduct. They will not blow the whistle, not even if by doing so they could stop more wrong from being done to innocent, unknowing victims. They just keep their heads down and say nothing. And if it happens that you consult with a doctor after being victimized by another, he will never give you a straight-forward answer as to whether it could’ve been prevented, not even if you ask him “will you have done the same?” He’ll probably say something like: “I’m sure your doctor acted to the best of his knowledge”!
So what’s at stake if a doctor blows that whistle?
We all know that a squealer ends-up the outcast. But the actual harm of being cast out of some medical circle does not justify that a doctor deprive a patient of his/her right to sue, (given of course that the medical responsibility bill will be passed in the Parliament, fingers crossed).. Since the judicial system works, the questioning will not necessarily mean smearing of the doctor’s reputation unless he/she is found guilty of negligence or intentional misconduct, which in effect will uphold human life as a great gift.
Doctors should know that what goes around comes around, and the good of questioning their conduct will only mean better health care for their own as well as the whole community.
This is not a personal issue. It is a profession-wide conspiracy to allow the wrong-doers to go unpunished. It is true that error is human, but silence against this unintentional erring gradually makes it a habit not to pay due diligence in the medical practice. Medicine is the profession of making human life safer and better, but the code of silence helps undo what the practice aims to do.
September 05, 2008
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Feb 21, 2008
The mark of a great poet I imagine is that anyone can relate to thepoems as if they were one's own - reading into the themes one's ownvaried particulars. When I read your poem, in your case I had imaginedit be Israel-Palestine. But both Deep and Dark segments also stand ontheir own as independent poems, and I could also map my particulars tothem. I Look forward to reading some of your other ones too. You havean uncanny nack for beautiful imagery-expression! MashaAllah. Yourbook will sell for sure in the West - if you make it happen. Salaams,
Zahir Ibrahim
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Jan 7, 2008
Dear hend
Thanks for this profound article, we need more articles and civilized actions to release the truth for the western people in their languages.
best wishes
yahya alqaissi
Amman
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Jan 7, 2008
Good Work Hend .... It is our right to express, question and demand answers and you put it all in a summarized, yet profound way :) God Bless U
Rana K. Akhal
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Dec 24,2007
I write in peace and wanted to share with you that Cindy Sheehan sent your poem to me and I know that I feel an acute responsibility for everything that is happening in the middle east and especially in Iraq. I protest with all I can give...I write letters to our administration....I stand out in the cold and the heat; in snow storms and rainstorms with signs raised and blocking recruitment stations...I haunt the offices of my congressmen...and still they are not listening!
But, I will not stop until this nightmare has stopped.
My heart goes out to every mother who has suffered the loss of their child; to every family who has suffered an injury; to every family who has had to flee.
I do believe that this country that I live in is doomed if we continue on the course we are headed. And, I do believe that money is in control here...that the very rich (which unfortunately comprises a good deal of our leadership) makes decisions to line their own pockets and they do not care about the future of either of our countries or of our children.
Please, keep writing and speaking out as I feel it is only the support of the international community in the efforts of peace that will force the administration of the United States to end this war and this nightmare for all of us.
In peace and love,
Carolyn Cole
Thank you Carolyn
I and the world will appreciate your efforts
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Dec 24, 2007
Dear Hend
I have spent some time in your country and I am very sorry for what the US has done to your "part of the world"
As our world shrinks, I realize that you are my sister and I will try even harder to help bring peace to your region.
The poem was very meaningful to me.Love and sal'aam
Cindy Sheehan
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Dec 3, 2007
Dear Hend,
your poetry is very beautiful, very moving, you appreciate each moment and you present sadness with such dignity.
Thank you for sharing it!I will CC my friend, Bronwyn so she can read it too
All the best to you,
Marie Maciak
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Nov 3, 2007
Hello!
You have never met me and possibly never will, sadly. My name is Kohleun and I'm a university student, studying philosophy and women's studies, in a small town in Oregon, U.S.A. Searching the Internet, I found your blog on Google, and your poetry delights me. I also love to write and read poetry; actually, I breathe through it.
My roommate and her family live in Jordan and she and I are both saddened by the stereotypes and assumptions that are made about Arab women by people in the United States. Stereotypes should be dissolved.
Thank you! Thank you!
Peace be with you and yours,
Kohleun Adamson
Feb 21, 2008
The mark of a great poet I imagine is that anyone can relate to thepoems as if they were one's own - reading into the themes one's ownvaried particulars. When I read your poem, in your case I had imaginedit be Israel-Palestine. But both Deep and Dark segments also stand ontheir own as independent poems, and I could also map my particulars tothem. I Look forward to reading some of your other ones too. You havean uncanny nack for beautiful imagery-expression! MashaAllah. Yourbook will sell for sure in the West - if you make it happen. Salaams,
Zahir Ibrahim
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Jan 7, 2008
Dear hend
Thanks for this profound article, we need more articles and civilized actions to release the truth for the western people in their languages.
best wishes
yahya alqaissi
Amman
--------------
Jan 7, 2008
Good Work Hend .... It is our right to express, question and demand answers and you put it all in a summarized, yet profound way :) God Bless U
Rana K. Akhal
--------------
Dec 24,2007
I write in peace and wanted to share with you that Cindy Sheehan sent your poem to me and I know that I feel an acute responsibility for everything that is happening in the middle east and especially in Iraq. I protest with all I can give...I write letters to our administration....I stand out in the cold and the heat; in snow storms and rainstorms with signs raised and blocking recruitment stations...I haunt the offices of my congressmen...and still they are not listening!
But, I will not stop until this nightmare has stopped.
My heart goes out to every mother who has suffered the loss of their child; to every family who has suffered an injury; to every family who has had to flee.
I do believe that this country that I live in is doomed if we continue on the course we are headed. And, I do believe that money is in control here...that the very rich (which unfortunately comprises a good deal of our leadership) makes decisions to line their own pockets and they do not care about the future of either of our countries or of our children.
Please, keep writing and speaking out as I feel it is only the support of the international community in the efforts of peace that will force the administration of the United States to end this war and this nightmare for all of us.
In peace and love,
Carolyn Cole
Thank you Carolyn
I and the world will appreciate your efforts
------------
Dec 24, 2007
Dear Hend
I have spent some time in your country and I am very sorry for what the US has done to your "part of the world"
As our world shrinks, I realize that you are my sister and I will try even harder to help bring peace to your region.
The poem was very meaningful to me.Love and sal'aam
Cindy Sheehan
------------
Dec 3, 2007
Dear Hend,
your poetry is very beautiful, very moving, you appreciate each moment and you present sadness with such dignity.
Thank you for sharing it!I will CC my friend, Bronwyn so she can read it too
All the best to you,
Marie Maciak
------------
Nov 3, 2007
Hello!
You have never met me and possibly never will, sadly. My name is Kohleun and I'm a university student, studying philosophy and women's studies, in a small town in Oregon, U.S.A. Searching the Internet, I found your blog on Google, and your poetry delights me. I also love to write and read poetry; actually, I breathe through it.
My roommate and her family live in Jordan and she and I are both saddened by the stereotypes and assumptions that are made about Arab women by people in the United States. Stereotypes should be dissolved.
Thank you! Thank you!
Peace be with you and yours,
Kohleun Adamson
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